Dating a reclusive person
Those with sociopathic behaviors may go days without contacting their partner, and then may suddenly go through a period where they contact their partner incessantly.2. A common misconception is that sociopaths are reclusive loners, but in reality many sociopaths can appear to be quite popular.
All relationships are unique in my opinion, and this includes BPD relationships. Most of my relationship experience comes from dating BPD and Bipolar women.
Most spend their entire lives wandering the planet.
Like loners they do tend to make friends, and associates, and can pretty much network with anyone, but they choose not to go any further than a hollow friendship.
Here you are dating someone who you think could have BPD (or Bipolar).
I know these two things are different, but often times men and women get them confused.